There’s something utterly decadent about pausing the relentless tick of life’s to‑do list and raising a metaphorical (or literal) glass to each step we take, be it nailing that first‑year torts essay or surviving the existential meltdown of turning twenty‑nine. As women of impeccable taste, we know that life’s true value lies not only in grand achievements, but also in the quiet triumphs: discovering your signature coffee order, mastering the art of sourdough, or finally perfecting that smoky eyeliner flick.

I appreciate a well-executed revenge narrative as much as the next person. I will gleefully rewatch Gone Girl, meticulously analyse Villanelle’s methods, and momentarily entertain the idea of orchestrating a decade-long reckoning. However, in practice? The effort. The admin. The logistics. I would much rather take a nap.

When we were kids, we were trained to find the one. The Monica to our Rachel, the Ant to our Dec, the one person who would be our ride-or-die, share our chips, and vow to hate the same people we did. And sure, that was cute when all we had to do was argue over who got the red gel pen in class. But as adults? Life is messy, people move away, and honestly, no one has the energy to be that available all the time.

There’s something quietly powerful about the idea of a “chosen family”, especially when your nearest relatives are scattered across counties (or countries), and you need more than video calls to feel rooted. As a woman who knows her worth, I recognised early on that true value lies not in how many “friends” you have, but in the quality of those connections.

As a twenty-something woman navigating the highs and lows of life: career hustle, dating drama, personal growth, and the constant question of "What do I even want to do with my life?". One thing I’ve learned is that having a solid group of friends is non-negotiable. But it’s not just about having any friends; it’s about having the right kind of friends. And who better to help us navigate these complex friendship dynamics than Sex and the City? The four iconic women from this beloved show each represent a different type of friend we all need in our lives.